Struggling To Get Hard? These Toys Will Satisfy Her Too

If you’re struggling to perform – you're not alone. Sex toys can rid anxiety and pressures to perform in the bedroom.

Nadim Nyker |

Sex is great, there’s no arguing that. But not everyone is great at sex, and there’s much anxiety that can come with it. And for millions of men around the globe, this is all too familiar – it’s been estimated that a whopping 322 million men will suffer from erectile dysfuntion by 2025.

According to Mayo Clinic, having erection trouble from time to time isn’t necessarily a cause for concern. However, the inability to keep a firm erection during sex can lead to other associated issues such as stress, relationship problems, and can affect your self-confidence, too.

Related: How To Handle Erectile Dysfunction Without Panicking

But the good news is, if you’re struggling to perform – you’re certainly not alone. Sex toys are a great way to rid anxiety and pressures to perform in the bedroom. And whereas they cannot be used to treat erectile dysfunction, they offer an alternative solution to provide pleasure for both you and your partner.

And there has been drive towards men looking towards sex toys for help. Nick Palmer, owner of South African sex toy site Olivia Grey, says that he gets a number of queries weekly when it comes to erectile dysfunction. “I get asked at least a couple of times a week on the online chat,” he says. “We recommend rather using a penis pump in conjunction with a cock ring to maintain the erection after the pump is used.”

Related: I Tried A Fleshlight, This Is How It Went Down And What It’s Really Like

Still, there are other ways to take the pressure off your junk and into the trust of easy-to-use sex toys for her. There are a variety of toys out there and one shouldn’t feel intimidated – they’re there to assist. Lucky for you, we’ve tried a few, so check out these go-to sex toys for beginners.

Palmpower Massager

Talk about a magic wand – this is the closest you’ll get to one in the bedroom. The Palmpower Recharge has a massaging head which pivots as you move it around your/your partner’s body. It’s shaped for the most exciting of stimulations, plus it’s water resistant, wireless and rechargeable, too. The head is also interchangeable which really makes it the gift that keeps on giving.

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Our game-changer: You can buy Palmsensual Massage Heads which are interchangeable on the device. Our picks are the Palm Below, which has a rounded, flexible neck for G-spot stimulation, as well as the Palm Dual – which provides both G-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time.

WonderLust Serenity G-Spot Vibrator

If you and your partner are new to sex toys – this WonderLust G Spot Vibrator is the perfect toy to start with. Its silicone real-feel allows for an experience that doesn’t feel unnatural. I tried it and it worked wonders during foreplay. It was well worth the price, plus it hits the G spot, too – thank us later!

And if sex toys still aren’t your thing and your favourite body part hasn’t been cooperating, chances are you’ve probably thought about trying erectile dysfunction treatments like Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra. And whilst these medications are proven to work, they come with a host of negative side effects, such as nausea, headaches, dizziness, and facial flushing.

For this reason, you may want to consider going down the natural route before trying any pharmaceuticals — and luckily, there are some non-medical remedies (like cock rings) that can make a difference. Check them all out here.

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