Q: I’m almost 35 and my libido isn’t a fraction of what it used to be. I also have a hard time ejaculating and can last for hours. I suspect it’s psychological. Is it?

Can I Last Too Long In Bed?

“Your libido can’t be what it was when you were 20-years-old. You have other things occupying your mind and time and have much more responsibilities now,” says Dr. Kok.

“If you’re a working man in a committed relationship with a wife and kids, there is financial and work pressure. Or maybe you’re depressed and using anti-depressants. Anxiety and depression can cause you to experience a lower libido and difficulty to ejaculate.

Also be careful of alcohol use or abuse. It lowers the senses!”