By MH Staff - Posted on 23rd May 2014
Traditional marriage tips maybe outdated and not work like they suppose to. So when your marriage is on the rocks take these unconventional tips from relationship expert Mort Fertel.
It doesn’t take two to tango and you don’t need your spouse with you to fix it. One person’s effort can change the momentum of a marriage and that effort motivates the obstinate spouse to join the process of saving it.
People always wonder if they married the right person but that is the wrong question to be asking. The key to a succeeding marriage is not finding the right person but learning to love the person you found.
In a marriage absence separates people creating distance and we want closeness.
Talking about the problems makes things worse and leads to arguments. You will never talk yourself out of a problem you behaved yourself into. Speak in the vocab of your actions. Say little and do much.
You can talk and talk but will likely receive tangible practical advice that is simple to understand and easy to implement.
One of the most important values in the marriage is privacy. Talking about it is a violation of your spouses’ privacy and its wrong.