Where does pleasure start? With a glimpse of skin – or the first touch? Maybe it’s the sound of her key in your door. Let’s not overthink this, and just feel it. “We use our five senses primarily for purposes other than enjoyment,” says Dr Justin Sitron, a sexuality researcher at Widener University. “Sex is a chance to use them to just experience your body.” And hers. And yours with hers. Employ all five senses, and sex is more than a roll in the sack. It’s pure pleasure.