Q: My GF is tall and loves wearing heels. Can I ask her not to?

It’s likely she wears heels because they make her feel sexy. And when she feels sexy, there’s more chance you’ll reap the rewards. Also, for a lot of women, their relationship to shoes is borderline spiritual. Telling her not to wear something might not be appreciated. I’ve been there and it’s hard not to resent a guy who tells you how to dress. There are appropriate times for heels. At the movies isn’t one of them, but let her strut on a night out.