EXPLORE THE UNEXPLORED
“There are still a lot of erogenous spots he hasn’t found – behind my knees, inside my elbow, my ankles and more.” VERONICA, 41

CRANK UP THE VOLUME
“I love hearing him enjoying himself. It’s how I know I’m doing it right. Let go and I will, too.” LEBO, 29

“I wish one day he’d come home from work, throw me on the bed (or floor, or furniture) and ravage me rough.” MICHELLE, 34

EMBRACE TECHNOLOGY
“Just because I want to use sex toys with him doesn’t mean he’s doing something wrong.” ERIKA, 28

FOLLOW THROUGH
“Sometimes when I’m almost ready to climax and I’m moaning a lot, he gets excited and takes it as a sign to change position. That kills the orgasm, and I have to start all over again.” KIM, 26

WATCH WITH HER
“Certain kinds of porn really turn me on, even girl-on-girl. I want him to watch with me.” AMANDA, 29 “Certain things suddenly feel great. So when I move your hands somewhere, keep them there!” PHINDILE, 24

MIX IT UP
“I really love sex, but not when it’s a routine. Make it feel fresh – do it in the morning instead of before bed… or even better, in the middle of the day. Take a long lunch break! That’s a thrill.” ANNA, 20

BE DETAIL ORIENTED
“A random kiss on the back of my neck can turn me on more than an hour of foreplay does.” KARABO, 43

START THE CONVERSATION
“I’m willing to be much more adventurous, but I can’t fi nd the words to tell him that.” ASHLEY, 27

SHOW HER YOUR PASSION
“All he has to do to bring me to orgasm is look into my eyes. Emotion pushes me.” AMY, 33

“I like it when he leads. I’m in control during my day and I want a break from that.” LISA, 27

“Roughness can feel like the strength of your desire for her. Use safety words, like ‘red’ and ‘green’, to make sure she’s having fun.” “Pay attention to non-verbal cues. She tells you what she wants with her hips, pelvis and your hands, too.” “Sometimes a woman associates dominance with work and submissiveness with play. Learn her needs.”