Q: After sex, I want to sleep. Is there a way out of 
cuddling?

Depends what you, or your girl for that matter, define as cuddling. Many men use this as a broad term for the “loving feeling” women get after sex. She’s high on endorphins and wants to savour the buzz – and boost of oxytocin from touch – of your body against yours. You have two very simple solutions: spoon her, or lie on your back, place her head on your chest and wrap an arm around her. Give a satisfied sigh into her neck (or top of her head) and kiss it; whispering something nice – maybe how relaxed and awesome you’re feeling. Now let your breathing become a sleepy snuffle and roll over. She won’t be surprised.