Before you assume she’s having a midlife crisis, ask why she wants to upgrade her girls.

Only one motivation warrants surgery: to improve her self-image, not to, say, fix a dull sex life. Then talk size. 
Dr Bengtson, a plastic surgeon, usually takes 
women up by only one or two cup sizes; any more could cause rippling. Finally, she shouldn’t go ahead until she can outline specific surgical goals, like fuller sides.

Indecision inevitably leads to disappointment.