Q: I love my girlfriend, but I can’t stop fantasising about other 
women. Is this cheating?

Is it interfering with your relationship, specifically the way you view and interact with your girlfriend and your sexual connection? Hey, women fantisise too, so we’re not surprised that your mind might creatively wander, especially when you’re rocking a solo mission. We just don’t want to know about it. But if you can’t be intimate with her without thinking of someone else, then you’re not being present or fair to her. You need to acknowledge whether this is a phase or a deeper issue about who you’re with.