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Adventurous late-20s guy with his equally adventurous GF of one year
Snap your sex life out of a relationship coma. “Sex can be exciting for single guys because the act is often a goal in itself,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemaking (R191, kalahari.com). “But men in relationships may take sex for granted.”
Plan sex as if you were planning your weekly meals. On Sunday, schedule “dinner” for three nights, trading off picks with your partner. For ideas, check out the Men’s Health Sex Position Finder.
“The planning sessions were what made the difference. Simply asking my girlfriend off the cuff if she was down for the Butter Churner wouldn’t have made much of a difference, because there’s no inherent sexual salvation in the positions themselves. The key is that we carved out time as a couple just to think about sex – and talking about it on the couch while watching sport was all the better. These sessions are more than just brainstorms; they’re like tantric foreplay. It’s a turn-on when your partner suggests something you never thought she’d want to do. Then to have to wait five days is even more of a turn-on!”