“It all depends on what you mean by low sex drive. You cannot expect yourself to become instantly aroused (erect) by what you see, think or fantasise about,” says Dr. Kok.

“You may also have other priorities and responsibilities in your life now that become sources of stress and worry, such as relationships, marriage, children, work and finances. You may often go into “survival mode” which can affect you going into or experiencing a “sexual mode”.”