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  • The first time, every time by Matt Bean & Denny Watkins

    More sex, better sex

    The heat of a new relationship is a chemical reaction – and it can fade with time. That is, unless you employ these seven incendiary strategies to keep the sparks flying

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    Boosting her dopamine levels outside of the bedroom could pay dividends between the sheets. “Your brain can’t differentiate between the external anxiety caused by a novel situation and the internal anxiety caused by being attracted to someone,” says Dr Victoria Zdrok, a clinical psychologist (and former Playboy playmate – wowza). “A boost outside of the bedroom can carry over for when it matters most.”

    The best way to increase her anxiety, sans cardiac arrest? Competition, says Zdrok, which also helps release sex drive boosting testosterone. Sign up for a couples adventure race or just team up at the local pub’s trivia night; by competing on the same team, you’ll also improve communication and cooperation, the two behavioural foundations of sexual success.



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